I was about listening to Adele today, when the song "Someone Like You" started to play, of course I started singing to it, as if I was Adele herself. However, midpoint in, as I sang the lyrics, "I wish nothing but the best for you..." I found that I had stopped singing. The lyrics finally registered. Hold on Adele, but I don't think I agree. Actually, I do not agree at all. Why would I want to find someone like my ex? I mean, it didn't work out with him for a reason, which only means I want someone BETTER than him. No? As Adele sings, she mentions how he has moved on, found someone else, she even goes about blaming herself for things that the new girl in his life is giving him that she didn't! I mean, come on, really!
Listen ladies, if your ex has moved on and for some reason, like Adele, for you it isn't over, don't ever settle for someone like him. There is a reason it did not work out, even if he was the one who left you! Think of it, if he left it's because he couldn't appreciate everything about you, so if you choose someone like him, GUESS WHAT?! That person won't appreciate the same thing either. If anything, thank your ex, for I assure you that you will realize with time that he did you a favor.
I don't know, maybe it's my age or maybe it's the relationship I am in now that makes me realize how nice it is to be fully appreciated and to know, no matter what, that you are loved by simply being you. So, women as we age and we grow let us learn that we should never settle for nothing but perfect! This goes for love as well as life.
